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Whew! What a long day! We’re finally back home from the BIG Ultrasound with the BIG news!

by Tarzan on February 18, 2009 · 51 comments

in Baby, Doctor, Father to be, Ultrasound

Pregnant Jane ready for the ultrasound!

Pregnant Jane ready for the ultrasound!

 It has been a very, very long day for Jane and I!  We both didn’t get much sleep at all because we were so excited about the ultrasound today.  The day has been so long, I barely remember even writing the blog post before this one and had some good laughs at myself!  So that means I’m either going crazy or I’m in need of much needed sleep.

The day started out pretty rough once we left the house.  I’ll let Jane fill you guys in on all of those details because she was not nice to me.  Yes, sadly I got to see the fire-breathing dragon again thanks to those pregnancy hormones kicking in – and there was no way for me to escape.  I was trapped in the car and just kept my mouth shut, which is *sometimes* a way to tame the pregnancy hormones and fire-breathing dragon they create!

Here is Jane getting the BIG ultrasound!

Here is Jane getting the BIG ultrasound!

Sometimes I just never know when those hormones are going to kick in.  Sometimes I never know what to say or how to react.  And 9.9 times out of ten, my reaction is the opposite of what I should have done or said… or not done or said.  I’ve learned a few weeks ago that the pregnancy hormone battle is not a battle a father-to-be can win!

Anyway, today was a good day.  Everything went VERY well and the ultrasound went GREAT.  Our baby is in perfect health, everything checked out fine and the doctor even wrote A+ on the report!  Sadly, she needed to keep the report so I wasn’t able to take that with us.  That was our child’s first A+ and we are so proud!  Heck, I don’t think I ever received an A+ in my life!  So I know you guys are all wondering…

Because of the ultrasound today and learning if we’re having a boy or girl, has everything REALLY started to set in for both Jane and I?  The answer is YES.  Everything has become VERY real now!  It’s amazing the difference that just one day makes.  Fatherhood is setting in like crazy.  Lots of thinking I want and need to do this evening.

Here is a picture of our baby when we learned boy or girl!

Here is a picture of our baby when we learned boy or girl!

Other than that, as I mentioned above, Jane will be posting in a little while when she wakes up from her nap.  She only got what, about 3 hours of sleep?  That’s not enough for a pregnant girl at all!  Worst case, if she sleeps the rest of the evening, then she’ll post and fill you in on our REALLY REALLY exciting day!  It’s so incredible to finally know if we’re having a boy or girl and it’s so great to share this with all of you!

You guys have really helped us so much over the past month and a half and we REALLY appreciate you stopping by and commenting on our blog posts.  Reading all of your replies, stories, suggestions, etc. has been amazing.  So thanks again!  And Jane and I are so so so so excited!!!!  Whoooo Hoooooo!

            P.S… The answer to the question, “are we having a boy or girl” is secretly hidden within the above post.  Can you unlock the secret code?  Or will the sex of our baby remain a secret forever!?

Oh… and here’s a picture of my beautiful pregnant Jane in the elevator after the ultrasound:

Too bad you can't see her HUGE smiling face after learning the BIG news!

Too bad you can't see her HUGE smiling face after learning the BIG news!

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{ 51 comments… read them below or add one }

1 J.D. 02.18.09 at 7:04 pm

Come on now! You can’t do this! What are you having?????

J.D.’s last blog post..Orgasmic Dream

2 Julie Castell 02.18.09 at 7:14 pm

What! I can’t even do crossword puzzles. Don’t leave me hanging dude!

3 Elaine 02.18.09 at 7:14 pm

I think it’s a girl. Not sure where it’s “hidden” but that’s my guess! : )

4 Reiza 02.18.09 at 7:14 pm

You do realize we will find you and injure you if you don’t come out and tell us soon. I reread the whole thing and highlighted it all to see if it was somehow hidden in there. You must tell us AND SOON. Please, pretty pretty please.

Reiza’s last blog post..Sharing a link: The Day After He Left for Iraq

5 Jenn 02.18.09 at 7:15 pm

When is your due date, mine is July 20th and when I went last week they couldn’t get a good enough shot to tell what it was.

6 LANEAE 02.18.09 at 7:16 pm

SO I’M THINKING ITS A BOY BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE *CAPITALIZATION* ESPECIALLY THE *BIG* ULTRASOUND AND THE *BIG*.

7 Tarzan 02.18.09 at 7:18 pm

If you want a hint – go to Jane’s Twitter page… she is about to drop some hints!

http://www.twitter.com/hisboyscanswim

:)

8 Cent Saving Mom 02.18.09 at 7:19 pm

Ok I’ve read, reread and reread again and I’m still not figuring out this secret code. I’m thinking boy as Tarzan often says “guys” in the post of course now that I think about it maybe he says that all the time.

Cent Saving Mom’s last blog post..Do You Have Swag? (Limited Swagbucks Code Available For MTC Readers)

9 J.D. 02.18.09 at 7:22 pm

I say boy… because every time he says boy 1st each time

J.D.’s last blog post..Orgasmic Dream

10 Tarzan 02.18.09 at 7:23 pm

No one has figured it out correctly yet! Jane is still dropping hints on Twitter!

Go to: http://www.twitter.com/hisboyscanswim

I’m going to put up a PRIZE!

11 Jenn 02.18.09 at 7:24 pm

I always say boy or girl for some reason boy comes first for most people when they say it, but I’m guessing boy because of the first hint !

12 Formerlymac 02.18.09 at 7:25 pm

Come on people! Check out the first letter of each paragraph! ITSABOY!!! CONGRATULATIONS! I am so excited for you. As much as I wanted a girl, I am so glad that my first was a boy! I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Formerlymac’s last blog post..Things Have Been Crazy!

13 Cent Saving Mom 02.18.09 at 7:25 pm

I thought about that too JD but wasn’t sure if it was just naturally how Tarzan writes. I say girl before boy naturally.

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14 Keri 02.18.09 at 7:26 pm

I think its a girl. BIG is Baby Is Girl?

Keri’s last blog post..Sexy Smokey Teal Eyes

15 Mommy in Pink 02.18.09 at 7:27 pm

I’m going with Girl!

16 Sal 02.18.09 at 7:27 pm

Girl!!!!

17 Cent Saving Mom 02.18.09 at 7:28 pm

How about a 3 letter correlation for the code…you know BIG and BOY each are three letter words starting with B. Am I out on a limb here?

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18 Tarzan 02.18.09 at 7:28 pm

WHOOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!

FormerlyMac has won a $20 Amazon.com gift card!!!! :) Jane posted on Twitter whoever cracked the code would win that prize. Congrats!!!

Please contact us with your mailing address and we’ll get it over to you.

Yes, if you look at each letter of every paragraph, you will see it spells out…

IT’S A BOY !!!!! Whooooo hooooooo!!!!!! BIG BIG posts from Jane and I will be coming tonight or tomorrow with the whole story!

19 Megan 02.18.09 at 7:28 pm

It’s a boy! The screen flashes blue when you first load the page.

Megan’s last blog post..(Not even close to) Wordless Wednesday

20 Kelly 02.18.09 at 7:29 pm

I agree with Laenae–I think it’s all of the caps on BIG for BOY…

Kelly’s last blog post..Funeral day–bittersweet

21 Reiza 02.18.09 at 7:29 pm

Ahhhh, Boy. Congrats!

FTR, I was right. :-)

I swear, everyone is having boys lately.

Reiza’s last blog post..Sharing a link: The Day After He Left for Iraq

22 beagle 02.18.09 at 7:29 pm

Congrats Formerlymac – and thanks for letting the rest of us know! :P

23 Roxanne 02.18.09 at 7:29 pm

formerlymac! I just caught that too!! very clever :)

Roxanne’s last blog post..Wii are family!

24 Cent Saving Mom 02.18.09 at 7:29 pm

Nice catch Formerlymac, I can’t believe I didn’t check that out. I took the it’s in the beginning clue all wrong. Congrats on the lil’ man Jane & Tarzan.

Cent Saving Mom’s last blog post..Do You Have Swag? (Limited Swagbucks Code Available For MTC Readers)

25 beagle 02.18.09 at 7:29 pm

Oh and CONGRATS Tarzan and Jane – have fun picking out baby boy stuff! :D

26 J.D. 02.18.09 at 7:32 pm

Damn!! Formerlymac is so right! You’re smart!

IT’S A BOY!!!!

J.D.’s last blog post..Orgasmic Dream

27 mompaulak 02.18.09 at 7:33 pm

It’s a Boy! Due To all of your ‘Y’ words (REALLY, YES) and ending in ‘Y’ as in ‘Y’ chromosome, as in male chromosome…congrats! xoxo

28 Lisa S 02.18.09 at 7:35 pm

p>I think it’s a girl.

29 Tarzan 02.18.09 at 7:36 pm

Ha ha ha! Thanks guys!

Those of you who have been reading our blog over the last month and 1/2, you should know us better that to just spill the beans on ‘boy or girl’ without having some fun first. :)

Poor Jane’s mom… I swear she was 3 minutes away from calling the hospital to see what was going on because we took a little while to call people so we could enjoy the moment by ourselves for awhile. :) Jane will share the story with you guys soon.

What a day! Whew! Thanks for all the congrats everyone. I’m a proud father. My son got an A+ today! :)

30 jessica 02.18.09 at 7:37 pm

Girl=That’s not enough for a pregnant girl at all!

31 Alice Phua 02.18.09 at 7:39 pm

I have guessed all along (judging from the shape of the belly) that the baby is a boy! My first born baby is also a boy. Welcome to the club of first-born-boy!

32 Mia 02.18.09 at 7:46 pm
33 Tarzan 02.18.09 at 7:48 pm

Hey Alice – you’re right! You mentioned that many blog posts ago about the shape of Jane’s belly and how you thought she had a boy in there. You were right!

95% of the old wives tales were wrong! LOL (A subject Jane will be blogging about I’m sure tonight or tomorrow.)

Right now she’s going CRAZY trying to keep up with everyone talk to her on Twitter right now.

She is CRACKING UP right now – I think she’s waking up… Hmmmm… You know what I’m thinking… ;)

If you guys want to talk to Jane live right now – she’s at: http://www.twitter.com/hisboyscanswim

If you’re not a Twitter user, it’s totally free: http://www.twitter.com (and addicting!)

34 Helen 02.18.09 at 7:57 pm

I figured it out!!
Should I spill??

Congratulations!!
Whooo hooooo!

Helen’s last blog post..Ooh La La Mama! Start Your Bids!

35 Helen 02.18.09 at 7:59 pm

Yeah I see it’s the first letter of each of the last three paragraphs:-) I just wasn’t sure I was allowed to tell!

Helen’s last blog post..Ooh La La Mama! Start Your Bids!

36 Tarzan 02.18.09 at 8:13 pm

Hi Helen, I wonder if some folks aren’t seeing the other comments on the post? I see some other folks posted answers awhile after my secret little puzzle was solved. Hmmm…. Will have to look into that.

And thanks so much! We really appreciate it!

37 "Deal"ectible mommies 02.18.09 at 8:24 pm

Congrats! A boy,how exciting… my husbands swimmers only make girls… good luck with him!

38 Heather 02.18.09 at 8:35 pm

Congratulations! I have four boys myself and they are a real challenge each in their own way.

Great news!

P.S. I made your samples before I knew what you were having so you’ll get a mix. You’ll see what I mean.

Heather

39 Peta 02.18.09 at 8:35 pm

Hey Guys

congrats on your little boy

Im so excited for you, been checking the blog all day waiting to find out

only 2 weeks away myself from finding out the sex of our little bundle of joy

40 Lisa 02.18.09 at 8:37 pm

Okay– so I cheated and just read the comments to find out the answer! :)
But CONGRATS on the boy! How exciting! Now for the fun of coming up with boy names and little boy nursery themes! :)

Lisa’s last blog post..Ahem…I hate self promotion…but….

41 Cassie 02.18.09 at 9:09 pm

Congratulations on your healthy baby boy!! Boys are the best, you guys are going to have so much fun! :)

42 Alice Phua 02.18.09 at 9:34 pm

Tarzan,

This method of looking at the shape of the belly is practised by Malaysians (but not all Malaysians of course!), but I’m not sure whether other Asians use this method or not. And this method is usually accurate :-)

43 Crysi 02.18.09 at 9:57 pm

Congrats! So happy for you.

Crysi’s last blog post..Life’s a Beach

44 Debie 02.19.09 at 7:02 am

Congrats!! I love following your story and I hope your little boy gets many more A+’s in his life!

Debie’s last blog post..first draping

45 Teri 02.19.09 at 7:48 am

Congrats on the boy! I am loving my little guy – they are so much fun!

Teri’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday: Yesterday

46 Helen 02.19.09 at 9:23 am

I love the fact that your blog is mostly BLUE and that it’s titled his BOYS can swim, even though I realize that was coincidence:-)

Helen’s last blog post..Ooh La La Mama! Start Your Bids!

47 Lesley 02.19.09 at 9:53 am

GONGRATS!!!!!!! Ultrasounds are so fun! We also had our BIG 20 week ultrasound yesterday and found out we’re having a girl!

Everyone in our families thought it was a boy except me so it felt good to be proven right :-) My husband’s family already has tons of little girls so they were happy the baby is healthy but really wanted a boy. For my family this is the first grandbaby so they were happy either way!

48 Strugglepants 02.19.09 at 12:08 pm

CONGRATS!!!! Woo hoo!!!!

49 Tarzan 02.19.09 at 6:58 pm

Thanks again everyone! Whooo Hoooo is right!

And look at that… when I picked out the colors for our blog, I picked blue. Maybe I had a feeling all along! I was actually wondering what we’d do if we had a girl as far as the colors on our site lol.

50 MoDLin 02.25.09 at 3:22 pm

Happy news! May your little dude absolutely rock your world!

51 amber relihan 06.11.09 at 2:35 pm

its a boy if you look after wondering… the first letters of the paragraphs are B O Y!!! its a boy!!! congrats guys!!!

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