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Is the rest of my pregnancy during the third trimester going to go by this slow?

by Jane on June 18, 2009 · 15 comments

I'm starting to get bored during my third trimester and it's no fun.Today has been a BORING day.  

I have read that once you get close to the end of pregnancy it seems to go by so slow.  Each time I heard that I always thought “not me”.  

My pregnancy has sped by thus far, so I was convinced that I would be different from everyone else.  That the rest of my pregnancy would continue to speed by.  That the day I went into labor I would think ”wow, this day came up quick”.  

Not sure why I thought I was special from my pregnancy dragging on, but I thought I was.

Until today, that is.

I’m not sure what clicked in me today, but this day has been super boring.  Really, one can only check email, social networks, and twitter so much.  I even told Tarzan that I needed a project to work on.  

I was so desperate that I even searched “crafts” on the Michael’s website, and you should know that I am not a crafty person.  I don’t even particularly like doing crafts.  Actually the closest I’ve come to being “crafty” is making a scrapbook.

Just one scrapbook and since I waited a few days before I wanted to give it to someone, I completed said scrapbook in 2 days.  And it’s a pretty extreme and elaborate scrapbook I must say.

So the thought of scrapbooking entered my mind, but then I quickly dismissed it because I’m really behind on ordering pictures…  since our wedding… which was over 1 year ago.  

Plus I’d rather just sort the pictures and put them in albums instead of trying to scrapbook them all.  

Then I thought that I could make something for baby T’s room, but that only lasted for a few minutes because I don’t actually know what I could make for the room.  Besides the fact that there is almost no room left in the room, I would definitely not consider myself creative nor talented enough to take on a project like that.  

You know, to put on display in my son’s room.  No thank you.

I knew that Gap and Gymboree were both having supposedly amazing sales for baby clothes, but I feel like we already have enough clothes and I haven’t even had my shower yet.  Surprisingly I’m not into buying baby boy clothes just yet.  Ask me again after my baby shower and that answer might change.

I thought about running errands, but I wasn’t really in the mood to do that.  Plus I’d just be wasting time doing things that I don’t really need to do.  And in the hot, humid Houston weather, I might add.  I’ll take a raincheck on that one.

Tarzan asked if there was anything I could do baby-wise, but there isn’t.  All of his clothes are washed.  The bedding is washed.  The musical mobile is put together and is hanging on the crib.  Everything is done for right now.

So how did I spend my day?

I did our laundry.  I looked at People.  I did the dishes.  I played brickbreaker on my phone.  I cleaned up the island in the kitchen. 

I thought about writing Tarzan a cheesy dad-to-be poem for Father’s Day, but then remembered that I’m not a poet either.  

I took a shower.  I folded clothes.  I read Lamaze magazine.  Tarzan and I talked about middle names and still haven’t agreed on one.  I drank lots of water.  I complained.  I played around with a baby site that showed that our kid was going to look like a grumpy old man, complete with no hair.  I got excited for dinner.  We ate dinner.  We took our dog for a walk.  

And now I’m blogging.

How did I go from being so fun and busy pre-pregnancy to not having a damn thing to do now?  I mean, really, when did I get so boring? 

I guess I’m at that pregnancy stage now.  The one that I never thought I would be at.  The one that, quite frankly, I hoped I’d miss because I didn’t want to become that pregnant girl.

But I am and I guess I’ll just suck it up (and try to keep busy) so that I don’t drive myself crazy.  Plus, even though I’m eager to meet my little boy, I still want him to stay put until my due date preferably.

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ha me too I'm only 28 weeks and it feels like this baby wont come I'm counting down the days to my due date already i even dressed up my dog in a diaper and bib and a small onesie he didn't like that too much but it killed some time i think I have seen every new movie out and have visited all of my old friends I haven't seen in a while called my bf about six times took a nap went to a W.I.C appointment and its still only 7

Thank you for this! I feel exactly the same way - all of the above. I am 39 weeks, waiting and I am bored! Now I have read that I am not alone and going to lie on the couch and keep being bored!

OMG ladies.. (Sigh) I definitely hear you. Although boredom is usually not an option for me, when it hits it hits hard.. I'm always tired these days (33.6 weeks) and most of the time I just want to hit the hay and have a good cry. This is my 3rd and LAST trip down babyville and trust me, I did not miss pregnancy after my 2nd child (20 months ago) and I can't WAIT for this pregnancy to be over as well. I am like a ticking time bomb with a short fuse. I'm so irritated with pregnancy that I am constantly in a pisser of a mood.. Can I get my body back please?? I MISS chandelier sex and being one of those sexy moms that pregnant women envy.. Grrr... one day, one day.

I am glad to see that I am not the only one feeling this boredom. There are a lot of things I can do but somehow, I am just not motivated! I am into my 30th week. Like you, I have been thinking of doingsome crafty stuff! Thank you for sharing....

I can totally relate. Also, suggestions about sleeping in/through the night are great but I haven't had a good continuous night of sleep in months due to hourly trips to the bathroom. I think what people forget is that there is this "precious" pre-baby time but when you don't feel good physically it's hard to go out and just enjoy yourself like those days when you were, say 30 lbs lighter. Swinging from the chandeliers sex becomes harder, even going to a movie and having to walk out twice to pee...not to mention nice dinners out where suddenly eating a 1 corn chip leaves you filling bloated and full...so going online, reading, baking, writing and sitting in the rocker start to seem like the only ways to really fill the time. This is my first pregnancy too, so I think perspective always changes afterwards but I doubt I'll be looking back on this time regretfully wishing I had taken advantage of it by planning a hike through the Alaskan wilderness or an African Safari....a lot of the fun stuff to do with free time just isn't a practical possibility and I think that's what's frustrating.

I know what you mean! I thought I'd be exempt from the slow third trimester too.

As it turns out, the slow slow SLOW third trimester is responsible for me turning into Betty Crocker on Crack lately. SINCE WHEN DO I BAKE?

Um. Since now.

I am just past 36 weeks and was exactly the same way. I hit a few days that went SOOO SLLOOOWWW a couple weeks ago but then things sped back up for me...so they might for you too. As soon as I started making a list of everything we still needed to do (for the nursery, installing car seats, packing hospital bags, etc.), I realized we had lots left and they helped make the time pass more quickly probably because I found things to do to avoid all of those things a little longer. :)

My baby shower thank-you's took me forever too. You might want to just address the envelopes now and get them prepped; that would be a really nice head start that will kill some time and save you effort later when you have all the toys to play with.

Hang in there!!

I am sooo jealous I wish I could have one of those kind of days instead of working!!!
Things I would do-if I wasn't working right now
send out thank you cards for my shower
read a book to the baby
take a nice bath-give myself a facial
get a pedicure
freeze a couple meals or make a nice dinner
plant some more stuff in the garden
shop online for stuff that I did not get at my shower-I didn't get a diaper bag, crib sheets, glass bottles, bath tub
As a side note, here is a great website I found recently that I thought I'd share with you. Naomi has lots of good tips for new moms-to-be
http://www.tripibabytips.blogspot.com
26 days and counting. Have a great weekend.

Oh I wish LOL! We are expecting twins and already have a 12 month old! LOL! I know you say you're not crafy but I get the feling you guys are into technology and computers. Have you ever heard of or tried digital scrapbooking? It's so much fun! And then you definitely can do your own announcements and enhancements for your pictures etc. Many people use photoshop or photoshop elements and those are some fun programs! Or have you ever visited Etsy.com...Ohhh I can get lost there looking at all the cool stuff. Bet you could find some cute stuff to decorate Baby T's room with. Whatever you choose to do good luck making is speed by! But yeah, you will definitely miss these quiet days soon enough. ;)

Jane,

I always enjoy reading all of your blogs since I have added you. They are very interesting and down to earth. Being pregnant is such a wonderful experience and you should just relax and pamper yourself for these next few weeks. After your shower you will have things to put away and find places for; which will be more exciting. Hopefully you will get a baby book and some things can be filled out beforehand; such as the family tree information and where you currently live when baby T was born. Sit tight and put your feet up and enjoy. It really will go by fast even if you think it is going to be forever!!! Good Luck and looking forward to your next blog :-)
MeMaRose

Just wanted to say that I found your website last week, and I absolutely love it!! Good luck with the last few weeks of your pregnancy. Have you thought about making a CD of popular songs from this spring/summer for your little boy later?

I agree with Susan S. Appreciate the pre-baby phase now while you can. While babies (and later on, kids) are amazing, they do tend to complicate everything. I remember when a trip to the store meant 1) toss on shoes, 2) buckle in, 3) go. Then we had NHL and it became 1) toss on shoes 2) does NHL's diaper bag have enough diapers? 3) a change of clothes? 4) Is he dressed warmly/cool enough? 5) Ok, why is he crying now? 6) nurse NHL 7) Get NHL buckled into his carseat 8) rats, he took off a shoe, put it back on 9) are we too tired to go now? ;-)

Enjoy some sleeping all night (won't get that for a few years after the baby arrives!), sleeping in, and just general two-of-you time. Before you know it, the focus of your lives will shift from the two of you to the little one in your life. (I know the shift has already begun, but it really hits home once the little guy arrives.)

After the shower you will have new things to play with, set up and wash. The last few weeks tend to have ups and downs. You could use a practice baby doll with your dog. I know after our son was born, our dog would stand at the crib just sniffing all the smell she could out of our son. It was quite funny. Are you doing birth announcements? You could look around online for designs and/or someone to do them. And mostly, you should enjoy it being just you and Tarzan cause your life is about to change forever. Go eat outdoors. Snuggle up with a movie. Do couple type things now while you can.

Oh I'm sure. Funny that you mentioned that because earlier I was telling my husband that it's funny for me to say I'm bored now bc in a few weeks I'll be really busy when the baby does arrive. Then I'll look back on this time and think that I should have appreciated it. Ha, ha.

It will and it won't go by slowly. You'll feel like it's dragging, especially as that due date gets closer, but then, once it's over... you'll find yourself wondering how it went so fast.

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