Dear Baby T,
Hi there! I hope you are doing good swimming in my belly. It’s nice having you in there & I hope that it’s been a great home for the past 9 months.
So I just wanted to talk to you real fast about something…
Here’s the thing: As you know, or actually I’m guessing that you might have forgotten, your estimated due date is this Thursday, July 23rd. I know, I know, you still technically have two days to go. Please feel free to continue swimming & lounging around in my ute for a couple more days, but then I hope you’ll seriously consider making your appearance.
Why the hurry, you ask?
Well I would really like for labor and delivery to happen as naturally as possible, and that means no scheduled c-section. While my OB hasn’t actually talked this route with me, I just have a little feeling that the c-section talk could come up during tomorrow’s appointment.
My OB will only let me go until 41 weeks and considering I’m almost 40 weeks, I just don’t want to have to schedule anything. I’d much rather you come out on your own… but I guess time is running out.
The past few days I’ve felt some weird things going on in there, so I’m hoping that it’s all a good sign that labor is on its lovely way. I also think that you’ve dropped a lot more because, quite frankly, you’re making your mom slightly (well, a lot) more uncomfortable. Of course I’m not going to complain at all… just throwing it out there for you to know.
So please consider this your official eviction notice that your time is up. I feel like Friday, July 24th, would be an awesome birth day for you, so I hope that you make something good happen then.
Oh, and if it’s not too much to ask, please don’t hurt me. Even though I pretend to be tough, I’m quite the baby so remember that and be gentle while making your way out into the world.
I love you little boy,
Mommy
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= a post from Mommy Jane 
= a post from Daddy Tarzan
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Haha. I do hope he cooperates for you
funny picture. i love it.
That is sooo cute! I felt the exact same way with both my boys. Good luck!!1
Cute pic! I was thinking that it had to be about time for that baby to get here!
Your OB won’t “let you?” It’s your body and your baby. Tell your OB to stuff it.
LOL – Love that I asked if you had given the little guy a formal eviction notice. I guess this answers my question.
Hahaha! I WAS pretty close!
LOL! Stupid nursing…I had to force myself not to cry after reading this! Hah! And my Baby Boy is 7 months old. I thought I’d be well past all this hormonal insanity.
cute specially the don’t hurt me part…I really hope he listens to you!!
So sweet, and funny at the same time. He’ll be with you soon, and you’ll never be the same. Best to you and Daddy T.
That’s really cute!
Just curious, why would your OB go straight to a scheduled c/s versus an induction? I would think they’d try inducing you first. If you have to do it though, it’s not as bad as it looks. The first week after sucks, but then I felt pretty good. At least I could sit down comfortably!
I remember this well! I spent the last days of both pregnancies knocking on my stomach and asking them to come out. Whatever way he gets here, he’ll be in your arms soon – and you’ll be giggling at how you agonized over his arrival. Good luck to you and Tarzan.
Ah.. I have been following your wonderful blog quietly and many times I am moved to tears. I am 4 month pregnant and yes my hormones are those of the crybaby type . I so understand what Jane and Tarzan felt and thank you guys so much for all the information. It makes me feel so less lonely.
Yes, I can’t wait to see your precious one! One mum to be in Shanghai here rooting and praying for you guys to have the smoothest delivery in history ever! LOL!
Hubby and I got a real kick outta this one. I think it’s seriously cute!!! Good luck you two!!!!
Hey, Jane! Just wanted to throw this suggestion out there: why should your OB decide when your baby is born? You make it sound like you’re just a child who needs decisions made for you. It’s your body. I’m sure you’ve done a lot of research about it. If you want to go longer than 41 weeks without forcing him out, that is your choice. I’ve heard all the concerns about letting a pregnancy go past 42 weeks (which I’m not entirely convinced of) but 41 seems to be pushing it. Don’t be afraid to stick up for yourself!
This is the most precious blog! I am sure he will be coming out soon with all the signs that you have been having in the past couple of days. Seems like you are right on schedule and doing all the right things to help him along. At this time it is a bit scary and exciting at the same time. Try to relax and get as much rest as you possibly can. I know that moving around (cleaning the house, doing laundry and walking) sure helped me out tremendously with my son
). As a matter of fact; the day I went into labor for my son, I cleaned my whole house and took my shower and just sat down on the couch to relax and put my feet up and in about two hours boy did those labor pains start…..I guess I disturbed him enough that he wanted to finally make his exit!!! Good luck to all three of you and hope that the labor and delivery is not too bad for you.
Thanks everyone! I’m so glad that you all got a good laugh (and shed a few tears) from this post!
Holly, Tori M., & Wendy – Thanks for y’alls concern. I made a mistake by jumping to a scheduled c-section. I guess in my head when I think about being induced I know that the statistics skyrocket for an emergency c-section. What I meant was that we might have the induction talk today at my appointment.
So, just to clarify something, I’m not afraid (at all) to stick up for myself when it comes to when my baby is born. There’s a reason why I went with an OB & I trust that she knows what she is doing. There’s also a reason why she’s the dr. & I’m not. Now, believe me, I do not always just put faith & trust in all dr’s, but she’s delivered many babies in my family & I’ve gone to her for over 10 years now. There’s a ton of trust, so when she tells me that she doesn’t prefer pregnancies to go past 41 weeks, I believe her.
Of course I did do some research & there are many reasons why it is safer for the baby to come out before 41-42 weeks. There will always be ppl who think that it is okay and others that disagree. I appreciate y’alls comments & concerns, but I’m going with my OB on this one.
Love the picture. Wish I had thought to take something like that during my pregnancies. Oh well, maybe next time. Wishing you a fast, painless labor soon!
Love it!!
Especially the fact that you two just sit down at night and decide to paint on the belly… so cute!!!
Just remember, the EDD is only an estimate. Only 5% of babies actually arrive on that date. There’s absolutely no reason he shouldn’t stay in there a little longer. No one can force you to have a c/s or be induced. In fact, studies show, babies born after their due dates are stronger and healthier. And even in those last few days, they’re making new brain cells. All good stuff!
So, please don’t get too hung up on that specific date. If your doc wants to do any interventions, ask her specifically why it’s medically necessary. I know you say you trust her, but you’re the mommy – you’re the one who’s ultimately responsible for your kiddo’s wellbeing. Many times, docs have another agenda – not saying yours does.
Good luck, I’m in the waiting game too, so I’m right there with ya, just trying to stay patient and let the babe cook as much as necessary.
Yep, I agree with MVP on this one. The due date is just a rough estimate. The baby and your body know when ‘it’s time’ I totally understand your feeling of time being up though. With my first, I went to 42 weeks and then was induced because NOTHING was happening. My cervix wasn’t even softened yet. The induction took 3 DAYS, so she was born at 42 1/2 weeks. I’m not sorry about the induction, but there was certainly nothing natural about it. I was hooked up to IVs and catheters and everything so I couldn’t get up.
Here’s hoping things get moving this week for you Jane, so you don’t have to go the induction route. Actually, from what you’ve posted it sounds like your body is getting ready so no need to worry! Excited to hear about your appointment today though:-)
Good luck!
I wish you a quick and easy labor. I’m sure you’ll do great, and now matter how and when he’s born…You won’t care after he’s out and in your arms. Good luck, hun!
I hope he comes out of his (and your) own accord. Your belly looks amazing – I hope mine is in as good of shape in another 11 weeks. Good luck!
Haha.. love the eviction notice! Lots and lots of luck and strength to you Jane… coming all the way from New Zealand.
July 24th is a great birthday – my youngest sister and I share it! We were born exactly 20 years apart.
cute
You really are my “due date twin”! I was saying the same thing to everyone….
My due date is July 23rd like yours but I was saying the 24th would be a good day because……
my hubs b-day is on the 23rd (of April) the baby can be the 24th & mine is on the 25th (of december) so the baby could be born on the 24th to make it in order…lol!
I think this is proof that our Monkey can read! He was born on his due date, the 23rd.
ha ha