I feel so confused right now. I’m going to call my doctor’s office in 9 minutes (when they open), but I don’t know exactly what I’m going to say. I don’t know if I should go with having the D&C done or just miscarry naturally.
I was all set to miscarry the sac naturally until I started reading online and some of the comments in my previous post. I feel funny going the D&C route because I almost feel like I don’t deserve to take the “easy way out”… Not that having a D&C procedure would be easy, but I feel like there would be more closure than just constantly bleeding and being in pain for days.
Since I didn’t and never had a baby growing in the sac, I feel like I just need to suck it up and miscarry naturally. Plus, I was only 7 weeks and 4 days instead of, say, 11 weeks like other stories I read.
I guess I just feel like the facts that I was still early and that I never had a baby don’t warrant having a D&C done. Does that make any sense?
Also, I just don’t feel like I’m strong enough to go through days and days of bleeding. So many reminders of what happened and what’s not going to happen. I just want it to be over and done with so I can move on. Any advice?
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